how do you make decisions for others?

a situation has arisen in my life where someone i love deeply, who has depended on my guidance and support for over 24 years has a big decision to make--the decision will change his life and the life of those who he supports in a good way, but it means going out into the unknown...its not a decision based on going for your dreams--if it was it would be much simpler...

this person is a libra--and loves the status quo, and usually ONLY makes decisions like this if life forces them on him...he also tends to NOT make choices, and in effect makes them....

he wants me to choose for him i think--and i wont--even though it affects me--when do you let someone sink or swim? when do you let someone make their own lives? stand by their own decisions?

its hard to know...

right now i am manifesting that everything will unfold for him just as the universe wishes it to unfold...:)

also busy packing for this weekends roadtrip to the west coast--i absolutely adore being on the road with a rock and roll band and having fun with my friends...some say i should grow out of this--but i think that would just make me old...so, i will do it as long as i can! :)